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I need help want to reverse my children adoption please can someone help. I am a male 37 and this is not just an adoption but a signing off of parental writes. [12.01.2010 18:20 - roelof007] |
I'm not sure if I'm understanding roelof007 correctly - you gave your children up for adoption and now you want them back? I think it is utterly unwise and cruel - those children have become part of a family, are probably loved now by aunts and grandparents, and they have mothers and fathers who love them like their very own, own children. If you march just back, claim back your kids, you won't just be destroying their lives and probably scar them for life, you will will destroy the lives of the people they are children to. You gave them up for adoption in the first place, if you regret that, you can find comfort in the fact that they are in good homes now, but turning around and trying to take them back will really upset so many people - and the only one to gain will be you.. They have new "biological parents" once they are adopted. They have bonded with those parent like they would bond with biological parents - you showing up now will be like a stranger arriving and taking them - when they don't know you and are not comfortable with you. PLEASE THINK - IN HEAVENS NAME - before you go down this path of destruction..
[10.02.2010 08:10 - MaryMary]
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